- Listen. Effective listening is one of the most powerful forms of communication. When you listen to another person, you place your attention wholly on what that person is saying. Effective listening helps influence others because they are more inclined to listen to you, in turn, and to credit what you have to say.
- Show genuine respect for others. Respect for others means that you honor confidences, make reasonable allowances for others' faults, behave non-judgmentally, act ethically and responsibly, and show consideration for another's feelings. When you demonstrate respect, you are respected in response.
- Act confidently. People tend to follow those who act with confidence. If you have experience and knowledge, trust yourself to make good decisions, and believe in the rightness of your decisions and actions, others will follow you. Exuding confidence when you believe your decisions are sound, even if you feel anxious, will create a positive model for others to follow.
What other skills do you associate with influence?
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